That's just too high a price to pay. In a few months, he will begin working, and his first few years will be demanding what else is new. Our relationship is not perfect, not easy, but absolutely amazing. Your husbands love you, and love that you are able to do what they cannot.
He can relate to me and we can relate to each other which makes us strong to begin with. I've done the pre-med, med school, residency, etc. She might not even be living according to the moral standards of the Church.
I was not in any way dissing her personally, nor dissing her at all, really Many people here have told the guy to run; I just went into more detail. How the Japanese Celebrate New Year. I learned, growing up, that very principle, that you HAD to marry a member or your marriage was doomed. There is much that needs to change and many hearts to educate but if we doubt some of the fundamentals then why not all of them. If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on. It's unfair to assume that she feels that way without asking her. I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church. By the way I work full time about 60 hours a week with my company and seem to never miss anything for my kid and can do all his bullshit also.
And those women are very replaceable to them. I could go on, but this should give you the idea. If you can love them unconditionally with how they are now, then I say go for it. All of which will remind her that she wants you to convert so you can be together for eternity.
