L esbians, ahead of their time, have always known the importance of cunnilingus. But for far too long, cunnilingus was seen as taboo by both heterosexual women and men. Dick-sucking may be par for the course in straight sex—anything for a man's pleasure—but pussy-eating? That is the work of the devil. That time, thank Sappho, is dying, at least in the parts of the world where patriarchy is less inscribed in both culture and law. But treating the vagina like just a warm hole to thrust your dick in is less and less socially acceptable. And so, guys, gals, and assorted nonbinary identities, if you want to be a good lover, you're gonna need to learn to eat puss.

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Also making sure that the woman is comfortable both physically and emotionally. Let her lie on her back, tell her how beautiful and hot her pussy is. Spend time kissing her and looking her in the eyes before going down. I like a guy to caress my thighs, reach down to gently spread my knees apart further very erotic , occasionally reach up to touch and squeeze my breasts. Kiss her, slowly, then firmly—but like you have all the time in the world. Trail kisses from her mouth along her jaw to her ear, maybe take her earlobe in between your teeth. Make your way along her neck, kissing and licking at the sensitive spots—behind her ear, her pulse points, in between her collarbones.
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We all get something out of the pleasure we manage to offer our partners. Women love when a man knows how to lick up their pussy the right way, just as much as men love to get a good blowjob. The reason for this is not that women want sex less, but simply that they have a more complex relationship to it, both for physical and cultural reasons. The article on 8 types of female orgasms might help you form the better picture about it. But for the other part, there are some women who have never felt comfortable with the general aspect of their vulva and their vagina, since our society tends to put a lot of negative judgments around female sexuality.
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